Stephanie’s daughter Daisy was born with a rare genetic condition in 2004.

She says being referred to as ‘mum’ immediately created a power-based relationship that did not recognise her role as an individual in Daisy’s life.

Stephanie says asking how carers want to be addressed could have a huge impact on improving communications in paediatric care and empower parents.

www.bmj.com/content/367/bmj.l5373

BMJ 2019;367:l5373

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